In loving memory of
and all other angel babies, children, and mothers who deserve to be remembered and cherished forever.
Like most parents, I fell in love with Lila the moment the doctor placed her on my chest. It was like the world had shifted and I finally understood that every moment in my life was preparation for this incredible honor to be a mother. As a newborn, Lila had white hair and the prettiest blue eyes, one of which would eventually turn green. She had the smallest cry and I remember thinking that she must be such a sweetheart. I had no idea that weak cry was actually an indicator of something terribly wrong. For a few blissful hours my little girl had safely entered the world and was nothing short of perfection. In the days to come I would think of this snippet of time often and wish that I could bottle it up somehow, drink it in, and forget the reality of what would become our situation.
It took over a year and a lot of research and perseverance before we knew what was happening inside her little body. After countless tests and even more tears, she was diagnosed with Vici Syndrome, which is a rare and fatal disease. My. Heart. Broke.
I'd like to introduce you to an angel named Lila. In all honesty, I did not know her that well during her time on earth, but her light and goodness has touched my life forever. I am so very honored to lead A Mother's Wishful Heart in her honor and to continue spreading light and hope to those who need it most.
A mother's heart is a sensitive thing. It is often said that a mother is only as happy as her unhappiest child. When our children are happy, our heart rejoices for them. When our children are sad, our heart mourns for them. When our children are ill or no longer with us, our heart aches for them.
Too often, complications during pregnancy, struggles with caring for a child with special needs, or the loss of a newborn or child leave mothers with only heartfelt wishes for what could have been.
We pay tribute to the mothers with aching hearts by honoring and celebrating the life of their child who is ill or deceased.
The beauty is that, just as no two family members are the same, no two Wishful Heart Sessions will be the same. If you have a situation that you feel warrants a Wishful Heart Session, please contact me and we will begin the planning process.
Wishful Heart Sessions are crafted specifically for each family's individual needs. They often require special arrangements and accommodations to be made in terms of location, medical equipment, and emergent timing. Great care is taken in the planning and we work closely with the families to plan a session that will celebrate and commemorate the life of their loved one.
Typical circumstances that precede a Wishful Heart Session include, but are certainly not limited to the following:
complications during pregnancy and/or delivery, stillborn infants
terminal illness, special needs that make family photos difficult, cancer, loss of life
postpartum depression, loss of a parent, life-changing accident or trauma
body dressing before services, funeral services, graveside services
A Wishful Heart Session includes a custom session, digital versions of all edited portraits, and an heirloom linen album for the family to enjoy. A fine art print or matted portrait collection may be exchanged for linen album based on the family's preferences.
All Wishful Heart Sessions will be fully funded by profits of Heather Pickett Photography. The client receiving the Wishful Heart Session will be able to do so at no cost to them.
If you have a loved one that you think would benefit or enjoy a Wishful Heart Session, please use the Nominate a Loved One button below to contact us. We will gather some general information from you and then reach out to them directly.
NEWBORNS: complications during pregnancy and/or delivery, stillborn infants
CHILDREN: terminal illness, special needs that make family photos difficult, cancer diagnosis, loss of life
FAMILIES: postpartum depression, loss of a parent, life-changing accident or trauma
FUNERALS: body dressing before services, funeral services, graveside services.
If you have a need for a Wishful Heart Session, please contact us as soon as possible. Requests are prioritized based on level of urgency and funding availability. After a request form is completed, you will be sent a questionnaire to gather additional details so that when we have availability, we can get busy on your session right away.
Our ability to provide Wishful Heart Sessions relies upon profits from Heather Pickett Photography and generous donors. If our mission has resonated with you, please consider making a small contribution - every little bit helps. All donations will be used exclusively for Wishful Heart Sessions.
Our heart symbolizes the emptiness an aching heart can bring. Eventually, buds of hope slowly begin to grow and blossom, bringing new life to the heart. Even still, the heart is never completely full again, for as long as a child is missing or a family member is suffering, there will always be an emptiness.
Time doesn't heal a broken heart, but it can bring experiences that lighten and give hope. We understand that you don't "move on" from your grief, that an aching heart never fully recovers, and it is ok for you to not be ok. We encourage you to be mindful of the moments that bring hope and let those blossom and grow. It is our goal that a Wishful Heart Session can be one of those moments of hope for you.
I believe that families are eternal, that every life should be celebrated, and that family members who have passed on can still influence and bless our lives each day. Let's celebrate your loved one and their important role in your complete family.
My most prized and endearing role is being a mother. I remember sitting in the hospital with each of my newborns and staring at their little features. I wanted to take in every wrinkle and flake of newborn skin so that I would never forget their tiny details. I remember how they smelled after their first bath. I remember watching my husband hold them for the first time and falling in love all over again. These are the moments that I want to bottle up and treasure forever.
Before I became a photographer, I worked as a Registered Nurse, for which I am still licensed. Working as a Registered Nurse in the Pediatric & Cardiac ICU at Primary Children's Hospital, Labor & Delivery at St. Mark's Hospital, and Maternity & Newborn Nursery at Intermountain Medical Center, I have been with families on the happiest day of their lives, and also the most tragic. I have seen, first hand, how beautiful and fleeting life with your loved ones can be.
Capturing these beautiful and fleeting moments is one of the primary reasons I became a newborn photographer. In fact, I am the first Certified Professional Photographer (CPP) in the nation to earn that merit by exclusively using newborns as their subjects. Being a CPP ensures that I excel at the technical and aesthetic aspects of photography. It means I have a solid knowledge of how to use light correctly - even in difficult lighting situations. You can rest assured that your images with be both technically correct and emotionally powerful, which means they will be a timeless work of art for you and your family to enjoy.
All three of my core-identities have perfectly combined to create Heather Pickett Photography where we celebrate the beauty and power of motherhood by cherishing your miraculous newborn.
My hope is to help every mother capture these fleeting moments with their newborns and to create timeless, heirloom artwork that will bottle these treasured moments for generations to come.